Getting a guy to want to be more and more committed with you can be summed up in 2 simple steps…
1. Create in a man the feeling that he’s better off being with you than being single, spending most of his time with his friends, or “sleeping around.”
AND…
2. Show a man, on a physical and emotional level, that he’s better off being with you than any other woman he could possibly meet.
Deep down, being truly loved is what all men want.
But when I say deep down, I mean it.
In fact, for men, the desire for love and intimate connection is often buried under other layers of wiring–such as the desire to do things like provide or reproduce.
With the strong impulses of this other level of wiring, it’s easy for a man to forget about his love wiring. In fact, sometimes men will even think and behave in ways that are in direct conflict with their impulses to find real love and deep connection.
In order for him to feel that he is better off being with you than being single and sleeping with lots of women… or focusing obsessively on his career until he has enough money to support a family… you need to remind him of the benefits that a connected, loving relationship brings… and unlock those hidden feelings inside of him.
Now, this isn’t something you can do just by talking about it. The key is to actually get him to EXPERIENCE those feelings when he’s around you.
Fortunately it’s easy to do–especially when he’s already attracted to you. There are exact steps you can take to turn those feelings of attraction into feelings of intimacy, passion, and long term connection.
And here’s the best part:
Few women know how to help a man get in touch with this emotional part of himself, and because of your ability to help him do so, he’ll quickly start experiencing a deep connection with you that he’ll want to keep it alive and growing.
It’s like you’ve flipped a secret trigger in his heart, and he’ll want to be with you night and day… and no one else.
In fact, a guy will not willfully commit to you unless you flip this “switch.” And no amount of pleading, begging, withholding, etc. will work.
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